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Fertility rates are falling globally, with India’s TFR at 1.9 in 2025. Are economic stress, career pressure and changing values driving couples to rethink parenthood?
A Lancet study flagged that by 2050, three-quarters of countries are likely to fall below the population “replacement rate” of 2.1 children per woman (Image: Getty)
For more than a century, the assumption that people would eventually settle down and raise children has guided everything from public policy to family expectations. Yet across continents from Seoul to Stockholm, São Paulo to Surat, that assumption is cracking. Fertility rates are slipping below replacement almost everywhere, and countries once crowded with young families are ageing faster than their institutions can adapt.
Whether driven by economic stress, lifestyle shifts, environmental anxieties or changing values, an increasing number of people are deciding that having children doesn’t fit their lives. The question now is not just “Will they have children?” but “Should they?”
Are Falling Birth Rates a Sign of Fertility Crisis Or Something Else?
Globally, the trend is unmistakable: birth rates are plunging. A 2024 Lancer study flagged that by 2050, three-quarters of countries are likely to fall below the population “replacement rate” of 2.1 children per woman. In India, the total fertility rate (TFR) has dropped to 1.9 births per woman in 2025 from 3.5 in 2000, well below the replacement level. But experts argue that the real crisis isn’t underpopulation. It’s the growing gap between the number of children people want and the number they end up having, a crisis of “reproductive agency.”
Why Are Couples Opting Out of Parenthood?
In 2025, something remarkable and profoundly consequential is unfolding across nations: birth rates are falling, and for many couples the decision to have children is no longer automatic, but optional. For many, the decision is less about desire and more about conditions.
Financial Insecurity
Economic factors come up again and again. Even in countries growing richer, wages often fail to keep up with living costs. Housing is expensive. Childcare is inconsistent or unaffordable. Jobs feel unpredictable. Across multiple surveys, a large share of young adults describe raising a child as financially overwhelming, not because they are unwilling, but because the arithmetic no longer works.
Young couples in global cities often talk of saving for years before they consider starting a family. The delay pushes childbirth into the thirties when fertility naturally declines reducing the likelihood of larger families. In the UNFPA–YouGov survey covering 14 countries, nearly 40% of respondents cited “financial limitations” as the main barrier to having the family they desire.
Urban Life and Career Pressure
Changing social patterns like marrying later, building careers earlier and living more mobile lives. Workplaces often expect long hours and constant availability. Parenting, meanwhile, has become more intensive and more scrutinised. Many couples say they fear they will not have the time or emotional space to raise a child the way society now expects.
Women, in particular, face a paradox, the old gendered scripts no longer fit, yet new ones have not fully emerged.
Health, Environment or Biological Factors
Infertility remains a factor, though experts caution it is rarely the whole story. In places like India, some physicians observe rising cases of hormonal imbalance, lifestyle diseases and reproductive health conditions all of which complicate conception.
Beyond biology, mounting environmental and societal anxieties from pollution to climate change to economic instability also influence decisions. Many prospective parents say they worry about the kind of world their children would inherit.
Is 2025 Redefining What Family Planning Means?
For decades, parenthood was seen as a milestone. In many places it still is, but the expectation is weakening. Young adults speak openly about wanting autonomy, stability and meaningful relationships that do not necessarily include children. Some want the freedom to travel, pursue work, build community in other ways or simply have more control over daily life. Others feel no cultural obligation to reproduce a sharp break from earlier generations.
This is not rejection so much as redefinition. The meaning of family is expanding: partnerships without children, single-person households, chosen families, community-based living. Parenthood remains valued, but it is no longer the default blueprint.
A growing number of urban partners now identify as DINK couples – dual income, no kids choosing financial stability, personal freedom and emotional bandwidth over traditional parenthood. Their decision isn’t driven by reluctance but by a clearer sense of what they want their lives, careers and relationships to look like.
For decades, India has benefited from a youthful population and a potential “demographic dividend.” As of 2025, 68% of the population falls in the working-age group (15–64), giving the country a window of economic opportunity, says the UNFPA report.
But with fertility falling below replacement levels, that dividend may be time-bound. Without policy adjustments in education, employment, social security and support systems India could soon face a shrinking workforce and a growing dependency ratio.
On one hand, fewer children can allow families to invest more resources time, attention, money per child. Smaller class sizes, better education, improved healthcare and higher standards of living become more feasible.
On the other hand, as fewer children enter the world, the proportion of elderly will grow. India’s elderly population already around 7% is expected to rise steadily as life expectancy increases.
Are Policies Out of Sync with Changing Fertility Crisis?
Many governments still treat low fertility as a “problem to fix,” offering incentives or public campaigns to encourage larger families. Yet these measures often fail to address the root causes cost, instability, social support gaps, or changing values.
In India’s case, the 2025 UNFPA report argues for a shift in perspective: the real issue isn’t too few children, but the inability of many to have the number of children they actually desire.
That means stable jobs, affordable housing, accessible healthcare, reliable childcare, safe environments and workplaces that allow both parents to participate fully in family life. It also means recognising that a society where fewer people choose to have children may not be broken. It may simply be changing.
Couples today are not turning away from parenthood lightly. Their decisions are grounded in the cost of living, the pace of work, the uncertainty of the future and the weight of responsibility.
December 10, 2025, 08:00 IST
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