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New year, new you—right? That’s what I’ve always heard; while that can be the case, there’s a caveat.
Maybe you feel unhappy about your current relationship. Or you want to change jobs. You might be ready for something more consistent after constant changes over the past few years. Life changed for us all in 2020, and everything since then has felt a little discombobulated. Or maybe you’re just tired of doing the same old thing, being the same old you. It makes sense. The question is: do you really need to start fresh?
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